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I Don't Watch "Nashville," But...

My friend, Russ Ramsey, was on the show. Yes, really. He knows people. This is just the sort of big thing that ought to happen to good guys, and sometimes, it does.

If you're wondering, it's not that I wouldn't enjoy a show like that, because I totally would. But I made the prudential decision that it wouldn't be good for me. Just go with it. Besides, it's not like I have time anymore; I'm in graduate school.

I'm not one of those "TV is the devil!" types. Quite the opposite. Stories are important, and TV is one of the big ways we tell each other stories. But a Christian says, "Is this a good story? Why or why not?"

It may be more my calling to read the great works of theology, so I feel the question of, "Why are you watching TV instead of reading Newman or Vatican II?" more than most. But I think one is a traditionalist in the Pelikan sense more than a Christian when he blames things and not people for sins. Call me a sinner unworthy of a hearing if you like, but I have always sensed a desire to be with people rather than separate from them for some other purpose. If you have a "holy huddle," it had better be for contemplation, not fear. Prayer is an excellent reason to stand apart. Maybe the best one. But do you think those Christian cultural critics are praying for the people who produce unworthy art?

On the other hand, Russ and I probably lack the standing to criticize. Back in the day, his favorite show was "Friends". I agree that it might be the funniest thing I've ever seen on TV. But "The Spiritual Themes Of 'Friends'" would probably be a short book.

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