Thursday, September 12, 2013

New Poll!

So vote in it. Also, there's this. Let me be honest: I loved this. Yes, OK, fornication is bad. And where is God? But it's still ridiculously enjoyable. This just in: Guys are stupid.

It's black and white with me. If we're talking sexual intimacy, she is my wife. End of story. That just isn't "my values" talking; that is my heart talking. It says, "No one knows me better than you, and no one ever will (except God)." I wish we would stop hurting ourselves and each other this way.

Don't lie with your body. That's what you do when you have sex with someone who is not your spouse. There is only so long you can live in a world of lies before it comes crashing down.

I felt for Jessica, because I knew she would want more. Duh. God made us that way. Guys want to give everything, too, but somehow, we can compartmentalize the emotional and the physical...for a while. A guy who acts out sexually or is hypersexual is deeply wounded. He wants to give all of himself, but he is afraid of being abandoned. I'm not a psychologist, but I knew that was coming. Tim's not lying when he says he wants total love, but until he begins to find healing from these deep emotional wounds, he won't find it, and can't give it.

St. Augustine, pray for us!

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